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EDITORIAL & POETRY

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Teens and Sex: Has it Changed All That Much?
Teens and Sex: Has it Changed All That Much?

I have observed that [the increase in sexual media] has led some older folks to form the opinion that [the younger generation] are hypersexual and no longer value our bodies. The question is: has our sexual activity really changed throughout the decades?

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The 2020 Election: A Defense of Democracy

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The 2020 Election: A Defense of Democracy

For many, November 3, 2020 was a day of change: democracy was on the ballot. It was a day that would forever be marked in the history books as a day when Americans went to the polls in record numbers to cast their ballots. Many braved brisk temperatures, long lines, and the risk of contracting the deadly COVID-19 virus in order to exercise their constitutional right...

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HOW THE PANDEMIC CHANGED THE WORK PLACE
HOW THE Pandemic CHANGED the Workplace
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HOW THE PANDEMIC CHANGED THE WORK PLACE

COVID-19 has resulted in an unprecedented reliance on the internet for communication, completely upending the office workplace culture that has been so popularized in America.

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PEOPLE LIKE US DON'T GET LOVE STORIES

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PEOPLE LIKE US DON'T GET LOVE STORIES

When I look around, I don’t see anyone like me. Not in movies, not in advertisements, not in TV shows or books. For many members of the LGBTQ+ community, this is the reality, and it forces them to grow up in a world that seems not to have a place for them... 

dreams

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i learned at a young age

that i would have to keep my dreams a secret

years of listening to my friends fantasize

about white weddings and prince charmings

perfect homes with space to raise babies and

family photos on the wall

i had to pretend

that i wanted those things too

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i learned at a young age

that i couldn’t dream out loud

if marriage was only with a man

then maybe i didn’t want it after all

if family couldn’t mean two women

then maybe i wasn’t going to have one

as my friends boasted crushes and first kisses

i kept mine to myself

locking up my dreams

where i knew they’d be safe

 learned at a young age

that people like me

don’t get love stories

we don’t get fairytales or love songs

we don’t get rom-coms or books to read

we don’t get tv shows or even commercials

people like us

don’t get happily ever after

 

maybe

all we get

is our dreams

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REFLECTIONS ON PARENTING
REFLECTIONS ON PARENTING
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REFLECTIONS ON PARENTING

My grandparents on my mother’s side came from Germany to live with us for a little while. It’s been an adjustment, I don’t know why I didn’t realize living in a house with six people would be so different from living in a house with just four but it is.

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ART & IDENTITY 
Part III
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ART & IDENTITY 
Part III

I’ve always had trouble finishing things because it requires two skills I don’t have. The first is the fairly standard moving on — to finish something is to admit that it’s done and I can’t change it...

Sidney Grimsley

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Sidney Grimsley (she/her) is from Kailua, Hawaii, and goes to school in Washington DC at George Washington University. As a gun violence prevention activist in DC, she is very passionate about the intersections of gun violence, women’s rights, the LGBTQ+ movement, and the BLM movement. She wrote this poem about how stagnant life has become this past year while the Earth shifts around us, very much alive and dynamic. We as a society have gone into a hibernation of sorts, which not only fosters growth but dredges up the ugliest aspects of society. 

And So The Seasons Changes

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I waited 

As ribbons of water threaded down the 

The lush green tapestry 

The mountains formed against the mist spun sky. 

 

As the Earth woke up, 

Fragile blossoms clinging to dew-studded branches, I fell asleep, letting vines 

Wrap around my wrists 

Like tendons of bracelets 

The underbrush tangling around me 

In an ornate coffin. 

 

I waited 

As the leaves formed a ceiling of 

Amber stained glass, 

A holy cathedral for my body 

To rest 

To return to dust 

To sink into the Earth 

Like it was made of silk and water. 

And now I wait, 

As the leaves fall away, 

A carpet of corpses 

Fragrant and sweet. 

The trees stretch on like the great masts of ships,

Branches reaching towards the sky 

like the twisted tines of forks. 

Like broken fingers. 

And, as the soft spring rain pierces the earth like needles, Will I continue to wait? 

Or will I continue to sleep, 

Buried in the earth, 

Like a child in the womb?

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On the Decline of the College Dream
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On the Decline of the College Dream

One can only imagine my disdain when the dreams were nothing like I had pictured. When I’d found myself feeling a hollowness in my chest that could not be described, when I wasn’t achieving anything I thought I would. And man, I really just missed my mom’s cooking because, let’s be honest, cafeteria food has...

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The Hard Truth About Moving On

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The Hard Truth About Moving On

Moving on is perhaps one of the most infuriating, annoying things to do. It takes a painful amount of time and requires change. 

Yasamin Olyaei

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Love yourself in every shape that life will inevitably bend you. They are all temporary  and you, well, you are the constant.  

 

 

Your value isn’t defined by others’ expectations or standards.  

It’s You who will define it.  

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Explore your body  

Learn how you like to be touched and held  

Learn what makes you feel loved, safe, and desired  

Learn your sexual map  

Know your moment of bliss  

Communicate them with the person of your choosing  

Someone who is equipped to honor them  

 

  

Be present with yourself.  

through happiness  

and through pain  

Your experiences will become less about external forces and more about how you  move through them.  

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Learn your maps  

What makes you feel loved,  

What makes you feel safe,  

What makes you physically and mentally satisfied?  

If you’ve nurtured that knowledge in yourself,  

Loving and understanding others becomes a much less tortuous path. 

You are sexual  

You are sensual  

Let your sexuality and sensuality grow in spaces where trust, respect, and affection are  the foundation of your connection. Let there be longing for shared experiences,  growth, and reflection.  

Let it be someone who wants to be a witness to your existence.  

 

  

Your soul is worthy of being seen.  

Your mind is worthy of respect.  

Your body is worthy of being loved.  

 

  

There are only a few things in life that take away your humanity.  

Rape is one of them.  

It violates your personhood.  

It unravels your identity.  

A sensory assault well beyond our current professional vocabulary. 

 

  

Your need to be valued, seen, and heard, are the basis of your humanity, they need to  be honored, regardless of the phase of life you’re in, regardless of how it has  weathered you.  

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To accept your vulnerabilities is wisdom; to then love yourself is strength.  To allow others to witness them,  

That’s enlightenment. 

Last night I dreamt I was painting abstract bodies; veins of white, yellow, red against a  backdrop of subdued tones- I watched myself pouring paint on canvas, molding it as it  dried. My eyes guiding my fingers through paint, still wet. Leaving chasms. Feeling the paint buildup under my fingernails, I hate the feeling, but it's home. I felt equally  satisfied and dissatisfied. Somehow none of the paintings were done until they were  undone. Isn't that the point of everything we do? We build ourselves up only to face  moments that push us to the brink of failure, and if we survive, only when we are  undone and still standing do we feel satisfied. We build ourselves and others,  sometimes we build ourselves in others- a brilliant idea, no? the foundation has  already failed before we begin. All of it fails, even the rock hard columns fail- sure,  they might have stood for centuries, but never whole- bigger forces are working  against them, or is it for them. I don't know. Which is the right direction? Maybe the  salmon knows, a lifetime of swimming against the current. 

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What does it mean to be whole and perfect? We are constantly in search of that  perfection in ourselves. In others. In our work, in what others create, say, do. We  critique imperfections, sometimes the ones we are incapable of seeing or  understanding. We violate innocence in others, in objects, in nature, reaching for that  moment of satisfaction, our perfection- leaving them undone- "build yourself up now,  the way I'd like you to be," we say.  

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My dreams are only a figment of what I hope I could be in reality. I dreamt of bravely  violating an almost perfect existence I'd created-but; the truth is, I question the size of  my fingers, how I am reaching for that canvas, what if it burns me, what if I ruin it- and  worse, what if it amounts to nothing at all, what if it's reflecting an image of its creator and there is nothing worth seeing? And what if I repulse at its sight? The gods of life,  the energies of what is and isn't are laughing, you fool; there is no perfection, there is  you, and then there is them - just feel with eyes open, take it in, breath- you're a  microscopic glitch in this divine existence- enjoy your moment, for it will leave you  gasping for air if you miss it, and you will miss most of it. And then you'll be without  breath, like the bodies you used cut up in the name of learning, the only remnant of  life you truly lived nestled deep in your brain - for no one to see. But before that  moment, you sit. Allowing air through what is left - holding on to elbows and knees.

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